Its been beaten like a dead horse i know im risking Karma since its already talked about in 2 other posts on 1st page but i had to throw in my two cents
1.Just to start i dont mind being checked, i do mind it when a player checks me repeatedly. The majority of people in game take a look and keep moving but a small but visible minority will do it mulitple times on one person which is a little irritating.
2.Now if a person name is blue that means they are anonymous and obviously dont want to be checked or gawked at, however i found the going /anon is the best way to get people checking me non stop. Its rather annoying, ill be fishing with nothing equiped to save space and ever person that runs by checks me out only to see my rod and bait. Its not like im even sporting cool armor.
3.If your just checking someone to see there job level or job/sub combo just use /sea "insert players name here" function its a lot less intrusive.
I can respect the fact that a lot of people just check others to see there gear, this is useful in parties, and its fun to see what that lvl 75 JP is wearing but if person is in blue it means leave em alone and if you do check take a look and dont keep checking repeatedly, it reflects poorly on yourself.
Also you have to respect the fact that some people both JP and NA dont like being checked by strangers, you might not agree with it but its best to respect others wishes. It doesnt matter if you think its stupid or quibbling little thing or not you gotta respect other players wishes in this game even if you dont agree. If you were wearing uber equipment and everytime you ran through area everyone and there dog started examining you, it might be annoying, course i would take it as compliment but after the 100th check i would be annoyed, gotta look at it from there side of things.