Althun wrote:
And I'd like people to actually quote me anywhere as saying he didn't have a right to be a total twit.
That would be pointless, as your stance so far has been one of disagreement with his stance, and annoyance at his decision. You haven't argued his right to do so because you know it's impossible to do so.
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I've just been making the opinion that he had a (imo) better option that would have satisfied all involved, if he would have let it.
Maybe he didn't care to. Why is it his job to be her savior? They broke up, for crying out loud. Under normal circumstances, I'm not sure they would even be speaking anymore, much less discussing the possibility of engendering children.
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Also, I've be *trying* to bring to light her rights being infringed for his sake, which seems that not many people give a flip in here about.
Your turn to note that almost everyone that posted in this thread, including Samira and myself, both stated that it was a shame for her that she couldn't get what she so desperately wanted. Her right is not being violated. She had the option of choosing to do something about her ability to procreate, and she simply made a bum decision in choosing to freeze a zygote and not her eggs.
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My being male has no bearing on this either way, but if it were me, and I was stupid enough to fertilize a soon to be infertile woman's last eggs that I'm not even married to, I'd have an overwhelming sense of responsiblity to make sure she had kids if she desired them.
And that would be a choice that some would mock you for and call you a twit, and that would be okay, because it would all depend on how you feel about fathering a child.
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Face it, whether I do or do not want children with this woman is irrelevant in this situation, because of something we both did to prevent her from having kids of her own any other way (and I mean her own genetic material, not from the family or adoption).
At least now we know that you're the one that causes ovarian cancer.
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Maybe I'm just wired wrong, I dunno.
You're certainly wired different than Howard is.