it wasn't that I need help - I always had a lot of friends to help me out - it was that even with help everything took 5 hours. I just honestly don't have that time anymore. I wouldn't complain if I did - but I used to live in a place where it was really cheap to live ($150/mth rent) and there was nothing to do and I had no girlfriend and I worked part time.
Now I live somewhere it is expensive to live ($850/mnth rent) I work full time, and I have a girlfriend.
I appreciate the offer of help - but help wasn't what I was lacking in XI - it was time. Time. Time. Time.
I want to enjoy playing the game just like you do. Honestly I hope they can make it so we can both enjoy it. However, I know it is selfish - but just like you are more concerned about whether you can have fun than whether I have fun - I am more concerned about whether I can have fun than whether you have fun.