I really don't know any other way to put it other than I'm lost.
I started out as crafting job. I've been looking all over town for a weapon shop but I just can't find one.
Am I missing something?
Should i delete my guy and start over with a fighting job?
No you should not delete your character. You can purchase a weapon in town, if you look on your map you can see the NPC market area marked with a red dot. Open your map with M.
Go to the following links and read up on starting. http://rawrcat.com/?page_id=1400 http://lodestone.finalfantasyxiv.com/pl/index.html