Sorry to hear you are having issues finding someone to group with, it does make the game a lot more enjoyable.
Have you tried asking at camps? Have you went to camps and asked if anyone would like to join to do yours leve's? Have you looked through the linkshell threads and applied or contacted any of them that interested you?
You are welcome to contact me in game, Bink Bonk, I would be glad to group up with you no matter your level. I play solo and with linkshell members, perhaps if you like the linkshell I am in they would give you a pearl as well.
Bink is only 17con/11pug/26phy, but level does not matter much when grouping, sure we could find something to kill in a 2-5 person party. I'm mostly online after 4(cst) during the week.