Well, ...Thanks for giving SE money for your copy of the game.
I've seen a lot of threads like this, and, I was frustrated when I first started playing, but...after taking the time to learn how to enjoy the game I can't step away from it. If you aren't having fun, considering joining a Linkshell. It's made all the difference in the world to me. This is a very player-interdependent game.
...shouldn't this be in the Complaints Department?