As of late, I have found that it was somewhat difficult to form parties to go hack big monsters in Eorzea's wilderness. I am a rank 9 gladiator at this point, so players between ranks 5 to 15 are welcome. I am typically playing between 8:30PM and 9:30PM pacific (US west coast). (This site will tell you what this means for you; check the time for Los Angeles). Most of the time I am in Limsa Lominsa, although I can teleport to other places. The behest at 9PM in camp Bearded Rock is a good place to get started. Let me know if you want to meet up.
/tell Haedor Dragonhelm