OP, you and this thread are exactly why MMO'ers and gamers in general have the obese basement dwelling loner stigma attached to them.
Fortunately I am a healthy and attractive man with a very active social life, I can get my sexual excitement fulfilled in places other than hoping to get it out of a video game. Games are for other things.
Cartoon/hentei(sp) fetish much or something? Otherwise, try the real thing - MUCH better. If thats impossible for you, atleast use google you can find much more much easier.
There's always someone like this in any discussion about any mature theme in games. I'm sure no one ever considered that there were people in this world that play MMOs, are healthy and lead a rich and fulfilling social and sexual lifetyle. Thank you for distinguishing yourself from the group to which you bemoan, heaven help you if anyone were to assume you were in fact one of those kinds of people.
I'm not ashamed to say I enjoy looking at an attractive nude female figure, in a game, image, movie, or right in front of me. How does that make me, or any male, a lonely sweaty basement dwelling nerd?
As I said before, I'm all for more mature themes in games, FFXIV included.