I could fit that criteria minus the millionaire & appropriately dressed part. I don't understand the appropriately dressed part. Women have different taste just like men. But that's not every womans fantasy. Often what we picture as the perfect partner, always falls short in some regard. Sexwise if you look at it simply on the carnal level. That fantasy may work?
There is no such thing as the perfect ideal partner to fit all women or men. Love or desire is something you can't plan on & be wholeheartedly complete. It is either there or it's not. You just feel it in the pits of your body or being. It isn't always the way we imagined it, it just is. And it differs for each of us.
This thread is as derailed as one can get lol. But I enjoy this derailment more than the original lol. I keep trying to doze off movie after movie. I keep drifting here to see what is going on.