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#1 Aug 18 2013 at 9:55 AM Rating: Decent
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I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125
#2 Aug 18 2013 at 10:16 AM Rating: Decent
It is more difficult now because a lot of people who played World of Warcraft are now trying Final Fantasy XIV: A Realm Reborn. I'm not saying World of Warcraft players are bad or anything, I'm saying it is a game where you can get to max level and do looking for raid to get decent gear without talking to anyone. That is the sort of vibe I get from the general chat in this game as well. I see some trying to put groups together manually, but others telling them to just do duty finder.

I'm bringing some friends I know over to this game (which happens to be 4 people including me) so we can do dungeons together. Do you happen to know any friends interested in role playing games? They may not think they like online role playing games, but show them the game and they may join you.

As for finding friends in-game, that is tough, the only thing I can suggest is keep being nice and assertive at the same time. Try your hand at putting together a group (this works really well if you are a tank class.) Find someone who is a healer class and talk with them a lot until you add each other to friends list. Then finding two additional damage dealers should come naturally. Looking for two damage dealers to do dungeon runs with (we currently have a tank and a healer and are looking to get to know you more.)

I hope that helped, if only a little.
#3 Aug 18 2013 at 10:17 AM Rating: Default
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While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?
#4 Aug 18 2013 at 10:18 AM Rating: Excellent
Join an active LS. I made a ton of new friends by joining one yesterday that was averaging 50+ people on at any one time. And maybe it's the server, Chat on Behemoth is usually scrolling faster than you can read it while playing.
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Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?


It was quite chatty on Ultros yesterday. Or at least it was around Limsa, land of the thousand radioactive squirrels.
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#6 Aug 18 2013 at 10:19 AM Rating: Excellent
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Killua125 wrote:
I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125

I made a lot of friends in FF XI from fishing. There was usually a small group of people at certain spots and you could generally count on them being like minded folks. Lots of friendships made while cowering in the underbelly of the ferry ;)

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#7 Aug 18 2013 at 10:22 AM Rating: Default
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Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?


It seems like almost no one talks on the Legacy servers but the new servers are very chatty. Plenty of people chatting in a random area /shout on Midgard as I type this. But it still seems like there's not much of a reason to actually hook up and party with the other players. I guess you just need to be a little pushy to make friends on ARR. It doesn't really happen naturally.
#8 Aug 18 2013 at 10:29 AM Rating: Excellent
Another thing is a lot of people you see standing around in quest hubs are probably stuck in limbo. The dreadful 3102 error is affecting a lot of players currently.
#9 Aug 18 2013 at 8:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?

Also, there was very little chat outside of Jeuno (and even outside of Lower Jeuno). There is no one "hub" city like in FFXI/WoW/SWToR etc. Plus, as the start of the journey (esp. on new servers), many people would have been too intent on leveling to stop & smell the roses. Give it a couple of months, and people will be sitting in town, waiting for raids to start, shooting the breeze in /shout.
#10 Aug 18 2013 at 9:31 PM Rating: Good
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While I like FFXIV, ya the absence of forced partying like in FFXI kinda makes meeting random new friends difficult. I loved how in FFXI, you just randomly met so many people, even JP players through partying.

True find a good LS is a start, but how about just meeting random people? Maybe the instances should have an option to only match up with people on the same server.
#11 Aug 18 2013 at 9:34 PM Rating: Good
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While I like FFXIV, ya the absence of forced partying like in FFXI kinda makes meeting random new friends difficult. I loved how in FFXI, you just randomly met so many people, even JP players through partying.

True find a good LS is a start, but how about just meeting random people? Maybe the instances should have an option to only match up with people on the same server.


Yes, I thought Japanese players were extremely helpful if you knew how to use the auto-translate tool. It's sad we will probably never run into one on the EU / NA servers.
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#13 Aug 18 2013 at 10:49 PM Rating: Good
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Hey Killua, I am on Midgar also and have a few friends that have formed a Linkshell already. Send me an in-game friends invite sometime. My name is Bada Bing. Looking forward to new friendships in Eorzea.
#14 Aug 18 2013 at 11:46 PM Rating: Default
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Killua125 wrote:
I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125




welcome to the 21st century MMO.... where ppl actually think its ok for a MASSIVELY MULTIPL
aYER game to be as soially interactive and teamwork based as a single player game.... it would seem im the only one who understand that if i wanted to play a game by myself theres 35 other Final Fantasies i can do just that in (and single player games in general) but apparently single player focus also has to be the majority rule in MMOs now days otherwise its "outdated" Clearly I dont know what the MM part of MMO means anymore lol -waits for the rate downs-
#15 Aug 19 2013 at 12:03 AM Rating: Excellent
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It's hard to find a LS to join without having first met someone in a LS to invite you.

I had the same problem as OP. I found myself prefacing party chat with "hello, anyone here from Ultros" incase there was a possibility of making a friend on my server. Other than dungeon's or duty finder content there isn't really much to bond over. I'm not excessively social so budding into the local /shout chat isn't really my style.

I had this great experience with a group on the Ifrit fight yesterday. Three other strangers and I became well acquainted over a three attempt struggle to beat Ifrit. After the first two defeats we chatted, seriously discussed strategy, and poked fun-- it was great! However, none of them were from my server and when the fight ended we shared our congratulations and excitement with each other then went our separate ways. After I exited the dungeon I felt as though I had lost something. We had just formed a group that achieved something together through team work and I would have liked to have had those same people on my server to possibly build on what we had formed.

Sad day, but it has truly become the way of the modern MMO.
#16 Aug 19 2013 at 12:07 AM Rating: Excellent
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Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?


I see way more people socializing through shout-chat in XIV than I ever did in XI. The only chatter I ever saw in Jueno and Whitegate were spam messages of people looking for groups.

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#17 Aug 19 2013 at 12:11 AM Rating: Good
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Killua125 wrote:
I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125




welcome to the 21st century MMO.... where ppl actually think its ok for a MASSIVELY MULTIPL
aYER game to be as soially interactive and teamwork based as a single player game.... it would seem im the only one who understand that if i wanted to play a game by myself theres 35 other Final Fantasies i can do just that in (and single player games in general) but apparently single player focus also has to be the majority rule in MMOs now days otherwise its "outdated" Clearly I dont know what the MM part of MMO means anymore lol -waits for the rate downs-


The game broke a record? Smiley: lol
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#18 Aug 19 2013 at 4:01 AM Rating: Decent
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I feel where youre coming from and I agree with what youre saying but give these a try...

*give the game a few months for wow zombie type style players to die off (I feel like they are poisoning the game with their bad vibes atm)

*make dungeon/raid pre mades

*join an LS/FC with former ffxi players

*make pvp premades
#19 Aug 19 2013 at 4:06 AM Rating: Excellent
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Kinda like how you made so many friends on ZAM boss... no different...

If you need any further guidance... feel free to PM Duo... he is a master also...

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#20 Aug 19 2013 at 4:19 AM Rating: Excellent
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Beta feels so rushed. No one has time to sit down and talk, chat or anything like that. They're all just focused on leveling right now. Maybe there will be more of a community later on, but right now i've not had to rely on anyone else to get my levels, nor did i ever really feel the need to interact with everyone since they're all busy. I gave some axe wielder i saw running around in cloth armor some bronze, that's about it.

So far for me it's missing the social aspect that i absolutely require and love in XI.
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Killua125 wrote:
I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).


Yeah, I'm not sure what the motivation was for forcing your home city on you based on what class you start as. Then again, I guess you're forced to level up classes you might not want to anyway so... /shrug

I haven't really played ARR beta since first phase so I can't speak on making friends, but I'd imagine that you can ask people to quest with you regardless of what your class is. It wasn't much different from 1.0 in that respect and even if you're the same class, you don't really need a party composition for general questing.
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In ultros whenever I would go I would see people talk with shouts. Almost every zone was lively with people having convos for various things or ask for directions for their hunter's log etc.

Not to mention people helping each other to kill mobs of the same quest since both will take credits.
Or people asking for revive if someone happen to have (since I was in Uldah most of the time).

So at general from my experience it was rather nice.
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What do you think of this?

http://forum.square-enix.com/ARR-Test/threads/106777-Option-to-link-with-only-players-on-the-same-server

I think it'd be rather cool to be able to know that people are from your server, so you can say, hey you're a good tank, wanna do some other dungeons with me? etc etc
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Here is my 2 cents, Noted i'm a nice person but this will be harsh but please at least consider this.

You're doing it wrong if the only means to meet people is doing content. I never had any issue meeting or befriending people in any mmo.
here is what you do:

stop being so content focused, and walk around the game world. If you see a person needing help, offer it. If you read a shout with a question, reply it. If you see a conversation take place that peeks your interest, jump in and join it.

You can also wave to people, do silly emotes around them, emote as you talk. Or simply say hello, how are you. It is easy to meet people in mmo and its tiring when people do things as blame duty finder for their woes.
MMO wouldn't need them if people were diligent and formed parties like the early ps2 NA days of ffxi. I played 2 hrs a day and NEVER waited for a party on monk. My brother played 2 hrs a day and NEVER waited for a party on dragoon.

Stop asking for a game to make friends for you. You can do that yourself
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Killua125 wrote:
I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125


I dont know, my girlfriend used the duty finder and twice she came out of the fight and got linkshell invites.
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Beta feels so rushed. No one has time to sit down and talk, chat or anything like that. They're all just focused on leveling right now. Maybe there will be more of a community later on, but right now i've not had to rely on anyone else to get my levels, nor did i ever really feel the need to interact with everyone since they're all busy. I gave some axe wielder i saw running around in cloth armor some bronze, that's about it.

So far for me it's missing the social aspect that i absolutely require and love in XI.


I agree with this.. Once things settle down a little it will be different.
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Nashred wrote:
Killua125 wrote:
I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125


I dont know, my girlfriend used the duty finder and twice she came out of the fight and got linkshell invites.


That is pretty lucky then. I've never been paired up with people from my server so far.
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Shout for an LS or a Free Company. I prefer to do things with people from my server.
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I agree with the P4 rush comment. Restrict the play window, mix that with a 3102 black out, and everyone's going to want to maximize their playtime with content and worry about chit-chatting later.

Everyone wants to get to 20, cap the story, and have the best possible start to EA and Launch. For legacy it's about crashing through the story, so the game catches up to your level I'd bet. I could be wrong, but there was lots of socializing going on in the zones on Ultros so perhaps I'm right about the Legacy servers?
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Kinda like how you made so many friends on ZAM boss... no different...

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Edited, Aug 19th 2013 6:07am by chomama



I must be considering the MANY friends I had in FFXI... however I made friends there due to my skill and the ability to get the job done, so when people wanted/needed stuff done they knew who to come to (and they didnt talk to me JUST when they needed/anted stuff otherwise i wouldnt call them friends) not because of my "sparking personality" because as Im sure we both can agree, Im quite lacking in that department, yet that didnt stop ppl from buzzing around me like flies on **** so i must have been doing SOMETHING right.
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Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?


What server are you playing on? People on Gilgamesh never stop talking. Then again, it's the Reddit server, they have opinions about everything.
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I didn't have any issues over beta weekend making friends. On Ultros. I made some friends through the Linkshells I joined, the ZAM LS and another one called Snow Recruits. Everyone was nice and helpful. You just need to join LS because it's the best way to get to know other players. Talking over shout etc is fine too but being a part of a LS and all will get you more friends because you're a part of something together and you always have the option of talking to and getting to know the same person. It's a great thing. They didn't offer that in my old mmo, all we had was public channels (which was mostly full of trolls) and then kinships/guilds, most of which were only active if the game itself was holding interest... so I'm really loving LS in FFXIV. The community here is nice, people I've talked to I've warmed up to right away, we shared jokes and had some laughs. It's nice to have that in an mmo. I hate games where people are apprehensive about socializing with this person or that. Having a good manners and being open to making new friends is pretty crucial in an mmo. You don't have to be a big mouth either, just take it east, be helpful, and don't be afraid of receiving advice and asking questions. It can take you a long way.
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Awww darn thing messed up and posted my reply twice... sorry about that lol! Hate it when that happens :) Also meant *take it easy* not east, lol typos ftw

Edited, Aug 19th 2013 11:50am by FoxyCat22
#35 Aug 19 2013 at 10:25 AM Rating: Excellent
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I made friends, by just making little comments in shout. "This weather effect looks amazing!"
I always found it easier to talk about weather for some reason to break the ice.

Another way is to answer questions. There were so many new people asking that by answering them, they were given motivation to start talking. If people continued to shoot them down I noticed that no one would actually talk .

I try to be as generally nice as possible, and help those around me. IE - Leveling syncing on Fates that need a tank - so that other people progress. That sort of thing.
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Yeah, I did plenty of that. I helped people with their Hunting Logs, switched to my level 20 tank to do Lazy Laurence even though I was trying to level Lancer, answer questions in shout, etc.

I've had some nice conversations, but I guess everything is short lived. Everyone is kinda doing their own thing in this game except instances which are cross server.

I'll try joining a Linkshell when the game opens, I guess.
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I had plenty of people friend me after commenting on my name (went with Melody Pond) and I responded favorably to them. We found a LS/FC pretty easily as well. Husband was shouting.. Someone saw him and started talking. I joined the conversation and stood emoting. Then we were invited to join the LS.

It doesn't feel that different from XI to me? I think it's just a matter of being slightly forceful? If you are enjoying shout conversation, go ahead and send them a friend request. And if they happen to be in a shell, they may ask you to join?
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I didn't have any issues over beta weekend making friends. On Ultros. I made some friends through the Linkshells I joined, the ZAM LS and another one called Snow Recruits. Everyone was nice and helpful. You just need to join LS because it's the best way to get to know other players. Talking over shout etc is fine too but being a part of a LS and all will get you more friends because you're a part of something together and you always have the option of talking to and getting to know the same person. It's a great thing. They didn't offer that in my old mmo, all we had was public channels (which was mostly full of trolls) and then kinships/guilds, most of which were only active if the game itself was holding interest... so I'm really loving LS in FFXIV. The community here is nice, people I've talked to I've warmed up to right away, we shared jokes and had some laughs. It's nice to have that in an mmo. I hate games where people are apprehensive about socializing with this person or that. Having a good manners and being open to making new friends is pretty crucial in an mmo. You don't have to be a big mouth either, just take it east, be helpful, and don't be afraid of receiving advice and asking questions. It can take you a long way.


How is snow recruits? They sent my GF a invite. She has not accepted it because she wants to be part of Zam.
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Instead of using the duty finder I chatted with people hanging around the dungeon entrance and made my own parties. Made new friends that way and we were all from the same server. Also you can make non-traditional parties that still work in these lowbie dungeons and beat the long queue times.
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#40 Aug 19 2013 at 12:08 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't really get it.

I'm really friendly in-game but the reason I'm having trouble is that the Duty Finder always pairs you with people from other servers and you can't be friends with them. So, the people you were partying with end up being like NPCs lol.

I've been having some chats with cool people in-game over /shout and stuff, but it's difficult to ask other people in /shout to party up or anything because we're all the same class pretty much (class based areas).

I'm on Midgardsormr. I have some friends already playing but I'm trying to meet people and it's tough on this game compared to other games.

Anyone else having issues?

Edited, Aug 18th 2013 11:56am by Killua125


I think you'll have to be patient with this one. As independent as you can be in this game, its hard to just walk up to someone and become friends. Generally this process works itself out when you start running into the same people over and over again in dungeons, raids, etc.. I actually ended up with more friends in WoW than i did in FFXI because i had more freedom and opportunity to venture outside of my "core" group.
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I find it's not as easy to chat on XIV compare to XI due to the game-pad interface and pace of the game. Using a game-pad to move around is much easier but when it comes to chat, I have to put down the pad and type on keyboard. When fighting mobs or in a dungeon, it's not as convenient.

I was in 2 duty finder party during beta 4, one party chats a lot but I was being quite because I was a tank and afraid to take time off to chat when busy tanking. The second one is really quite, no one talked (not even a goodbye when its done) and we get through the dungeon just fine.

I usually don't like to chat in /shout because I think it's a bit impolite. If I head someone asking a question in /shout, I will use /tell to answer (if I know the answer).

I have not yet to find better ways to "make new friend", most player I chat with is from old XI linkshell people who now also play in XIV.
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I find it ironic that people hate so much on WoW players, when XI players have been the most toxic people in the beta forums by far.

It's sad, because I was a hardcore XI player, and I loved that game to death, but I cringe at the fact that other XI players think they're so superior, when they're really not at all.

That said, I've seen plenty of socializing in-game. Much more than XI. XI's "socializing" was a bunch of people spamming chat with LFP. On XIV, it's more people just chatting and talking about the game.

Edited, Aug 19th 2013 2:24pm by TrebleRhys
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I'm on PS3 but I plug a keyboard in to chat. Makes it easier for me. Though it seems like no one likes to talk so I don't. I do play with a friend but I am looking to get a lot people to play with us on PS3. If any of you would to join I am willing to change servers what ever to team up with some guys and have a good old time.
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My usual routine for "meeting people"

1) Raise, Raise, Raise. Doesn't take long to swap to barely-trained CNJ if you aren't traveling somewhere else under time constraints.

2)Answer the odd shout for information. Not all of them, and don't be a Know-it-all about it.

3) Jump in with both feet!!! Last night about 10 random folks Coagulated to try and Kill Cancer, 10 levels too low. Then a level 31 Bison fate... they became a pure zombie Onslaught, Cancer killed us, but the Cattle fell before us. (Side note.. Zero exp for being that far underlevel, and found a good number of people who don't mind dying for Science)

4) If you have a particularly good group with people from other servers, Mention the Zam forums and invite them to say hello. Square did set things up to let people have characters across multiple servers, take advantage of it.

Never know, You may find someone having similar trouble finding people they enjoy working with... so much so that a "really good party" could cause them to jump worlds at this early stage in the game.




Edited, Aug 19th 2013 2:44pm by OtosanOokami
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#45 Aug 19 2013 at 2:16 PM Rating: Good
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Jeraziah wrote:
Westyle wrote:
While I was playing everyone seemed rather quiet. There was no big social chatter like I remember in FFXIs hubs. Are people just less social?


What server are you playing on? People on Gilgamesh never stop talking. Then again, it's the Reddit server, they have opinions about everything.


I was in a dungeon with 3 people from Gilgamesh. The tank got disconnected and couldn't get back in for 20 minutes due to server congestion. The 3 of us chated, I learned how to use the translater function. I also talked in LS about what was going on and found out it was happening to LOTS of people. (p.s. we got to finish the duty )

I guess, just relating to each other is the best way.
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#46 Aug 19 2013 at 4:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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Killua125 wrote:
Yeah, I did plenty of that. I helped people with their Hunting Logs, switched to my level 20 tank to do Lazy Laurence even though I was trying to level Lancer, answer questions in shout, etc.

I've had some nice conversations, but I guess everything is short lived. Everyone is kinda doing their own thing in this game except instances which are cross server.

I'll try joining a Linkshell when the game opens, I guess.


Feel free to send me a tell ingame sometime if you'd like Killua. I'm currently on the same server as you. The kinder, gentler Killua intrigues me Smiley: laugh
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#47 Aug 19 2013 at 5:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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This is how my friend did it.

Step 1: Name your character Kitty Cuddles
Step 2: Run around
Step 3: Find Hello Kitty
Step 4: Ask to be best friends forever
Step 5: Profit
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