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#1 Aug 19 2013 at 7:07 PM Rating: Decent
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I've made a couple posts about this before but I was wondering if you guys would post your thoughts.

Yoshida said that the marriage option would only be added for a straight couple, but a GM recently posted that they're open to feedback on the subject.

What do you think? Should two male or two female characters be allowed to marry on ARR? Before the beta ended there was a huge discussion going on in /shout on the subject, but I didn't get involved.

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#2 Aug 19 2013 at 7:10 PM Rating: Excellent
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My thoughts on it really is this, it shouldn't matter. Should a male playing a female character be allowed to marry a male character played by another male, does it really matter. I'm all for *** rights but a video game seems like an odd place to fight for them, and I always thought marriage in video games is kinda odd. Now Divorce is where the fun comes in, who gets the chocobo when people split up.
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It's not really about *** rights, I just don't think people should get left out.

There will probably be a neat little ceremony and outfits and it seems weird to say... if a guy/his boyfriend or a girl/her girlfriend are playing, they won't be able to access that content. If that makes sense.
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Really like I said it shouldn't matter whether its hetero or **** marriage in a Final Fantasy game. I'd be slightly more worried about the cross species issues. That poor Lalafell who hooks up with a Roegadyn, how are they going to explain that to their parents not to mention do you really want to see what their kids would look like.
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Really like I said it shouldn't matter whether its hetero or **** marriage in a Final Fantasy game. I'd be slightly more worried about the cross species issues. That poor Lalafell who hooks up with a Roegadyn, how are they going to explain that to their parents not to mention do you really want to see what their kids would look like.

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It was made legal yesterday here in New Zealand, make it legal in Eorzea too! :D
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Like in real life some ppl are going to be upset about this sensitive subject and others will be happy.
Its seriously a no win situation sadly
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Wait, girls play video games?

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*** people should be able to get married and be miserable like any one else :)
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#13 Aug 19 2013 at 7:40 PM Rating: Excellent
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I have no problem with the way they handle either scenario, but I did see people saying that if they implement same *** marriage in the game that it would warrant an M rating in some countries, and would be completely banned in others. For as much as would like to say having *** marriage in this game promotes equality, it would disallow some to ever even get their hands on it. How is that equal?

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#14Ehllfire, Posted: Aug 19 2013 at 7:41 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Absolutely not. This is a game children will be playing and Im sure many parents would not want their kids getting mixed signals about what is right and wrong. Plus many countries this game is going to be in (like Indonesia the worlds largest muslim country) would likely ban or put a mature rating (the us would slap a mature raing) on the game dooming its sales in those places, hurting SE. Also in Japan *** marriage and homosexuality are a no-no, so culturely speaking it would not fly there. The only ones asking for it are a small overly vocal minority from the US and EU. A large segment of the population of the world including me view it as aberrant behavior and shouldnt be encouraged. Id seriously doubt it will ever come to mmos.
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I don't think that post really needed to get deleted because it was a good example of people who are against the whole thing.

Anyway, I see it like this.

They're adding a marriage/relationship service, whether you like it or not. There are a lot of *** players. They are customers and they pay a subscription and it seems unfair if they don't get to access that content also.

Edited, Aug 19th 2013 9:49pm by Killua125
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supermegazeke wrote:
I have no problem with the way they handle either scenario, but I did see people saying that if they implement same *** marriage in the game that it would warrant an M rating in some countries, and would be completely banned in others. For as much as would like to say having *** marriage in this game promotes equality, it would disallow some to never even get their hands on it. How is that equal?


If a game is outright banned due to same *** marriage in a virtual format where the closest animated /emote is blowing a kiss... those countries women have a lot more to be concerned about.
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If it bothers them that much, then they can exercise their rights as consumers and choose not to play. Simple.
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We've had this thread multiple times... I soooo can't wait until you get what my other "favorite" ZAM person got
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I guess only the pro side is allowed to speak up on this. I am saddened that my thoughtful post which did not violate any rules, wasn't rude or condensending, was deleted.
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I don't really care, it's fantasy. Anything can happen. I guess restricting the marriage thing would make people feel left out, and a fantasy world is about embracing differences...So why not?

I have a boyfriend who plays a female character, and I play a female one. These are our views.

His View: "Why bring a religion stereotype into a video game?" "I thought it was supposed to be fun, not alienating people." "Now I can't marry my cute gf."

My view: I was going to say that marrying my boyfriend in game would seem silly. If we can't tie the knot in RL. (The wedding outfits are so cute though in game!) But, i agree, it shouldn't matter if someone of the same *** gets married in game. It's a game.
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I don't really care, it's fantasy. Anything can happen.


I want to marry my chocobo. ...Then divorce her and marry my unicorn. My rights! Smiley: lol
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supermegazeke wrote:
HarukaTenoh wrote:
I don't really care, it's fantasy. Anything can happen.


I want to marry my chocobo. ...Then divorce her and marry my unicorn. My rights! Smiley: lol


Nice lol. If we are going to get complex what about Polyandry and Polygyny. Heh those sociology classes are paying off today.
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As I've said before, XI had no qualms about a Galka marrying a little girl Tarutaru. Nothing else they allowed characters to do could be any worse than that, aside from letting a BST marry his sheep.
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Even if I were against it in RL, I wouldn't even care about it in a game.

Most of the female characters you see running around are guys anyway. I don't even see how it would bother anyone in a game. How would they even know?

I just don't get the human race sometimes...
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Personally I'd like to see it implemented. It seems like a fun thing for people to do. Whatever SE decides will undoubtedly ruffle a few feathers, but in my mind, it's an all or nothing situation. Either let everyone get married or get rid of the in-game marriage entirely. Sure, it's a nice thing to have. SE could probably even weave it into the lore so that they don't even have to call it marriage. But if it's gonna become a really controversial issue, I'm not sure it's worth having.
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Ehllfire wrote:
I guess only the pro side is allowed to speak up on this. I am saddened that my thoughtful post which did not violate any rules, wasn't rude or condensending, was deleted.


I was helping you out. If you ever complain about being rated down I'll nuke every post on the subject however. You were waaaaaaaaaay sub-d before I nuked it, it's restored now.
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Ehllfire wrote:
Killua125 wrote:
I've made a couple posts about this before but I was wondering if you guys would post your thoughts.

Yoshida said that the marriage option would only be added for a straight couple, but a GM recently posted that they're open to feedback on the subject.

What do you think? Should two male or two female characters be allowed to marry on ARR? Before the beta ended there was a huge discussion going on in /shout on the subject, but I didn't get involved.

Absolutely not. This is a game children will be playing and Im sure many parents would not want their kids getting mixed signals about what is right and wrong. Plus many countries this game is going to be in (like Indonesia the worlds largest muslim country) would likely ban or put a mature rating (the us would slap a mature raing) on the game dooming its sales in those places, hurting SE. Also in Japan *** marriage and homosexuality are a no-no, so culturely speaking it would not fly there. The only ones asking for it are a small overly vocal minority from the US and EU. A large segment of the population of the world including me view it as aberrant behavior and shouldnt be encouraged. Id seriously doubt it will ever come to mmos.

That huge shouting match in beta was pre-planned by by activist LGBT groups who are screaming and kicking trying to ruin SE's vision of the game.


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I guess only the pro side is allowed to speak up on this. I am saddened that my thoughtful post which did not violate any rules, wasn't rude or condensending, was deleted.


This post deserved to be deleted or karma bombed to oblivion. You say your post wasnt rude and condescending and yet in the opening line you speak of children getting mixed signals on what is right and wrong - what an incredibly bigoted comment. Being homosexual is not a matter of right or wrong it is a matter of biology and genetics. I am not *** and I found your post offensive.

Edit: removed a potentially inflamatory comment - two wrongs dont make a right, I just got a bit riled up.

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Yeah, that's why I nuked it. Enjoy it folks, do what you will, I'm not touching this thing with a 10' pole.
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Also, I think tolerance is a good lesson for kids. I don't think knowing that *** people exist is going to turn them ***. Smiley: oyvey

BUT a lot of people do think like him, so it didn't really need to get deleted. But Ehllfire, I think you're taking a virtual video game marriage too seriously.
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Heh. In Japan it's officially a no-no, but unofficially.... Japan single handedly made *** **** attractive to women.
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Also, I think tolerance is a good lesson for kids. I don't think knowing that *** people exist is going to turn them ***. Smiley: oyvey

BUT a lot of people do think like him, so it didn't really need to get deleted. But Ehllfire, I think you're taking a virtual video game marriage too seriously.


Killua - I rarely find myself agreeing with you on these boards but this deserves a rate up :-)
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Killua - I rarely find myself agreeing with you on these boards but this deserves a rate up :-)


First rule of Rate Club, we do not talk about Rate Club.....darn I broke the rule.
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actually in japan its under a don't ask don;t tell. since japan isn't considered a religios nation. They have buddism, shinto and christanity. Like i said you can have a *** wedding in japan I looked into it as i was curious. Infact there is an anime that actually touch based on same *** wedding.
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First rule of Rate Club, we do not talk about Rate Club.....darn I broke the rule.


And I rated you down in kind (but not because I didn't like your post...in fact I would not be content without my current post hitting AT LEAST default).

(Edit: Thanks guys. It hurts so good.) X(

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If youre fine with girl on girl then youre ok with same *** marriage.
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I don't really care but I don't think SE will take this risk in the NA/EU market (or well may be they can create some viral news hype about it?)

Anyway, I doubt if they will do it.
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I don't really care but I don't think SE will take this risk in the NA/EU market (or well may be they can create some viral news hype about it?)

Anyway, I doubt if they will do it.


Sadly I think you are right. But given something like Skyrim that had it, I don't remember reading anything about a fall out or a dent in their sales. I don't think (completely my personal opinion) that something like this actually causes people to not buy the game if they are against it. It is such a minor minor part of the FFXIV experience and wouldn't be forced on you in any way. It marrying someone of the same *** in game doesn't interest you, don't do it and keep on fishing instead :)

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I, for one, do not like the idea of a *** couple who loves each other ruining the sanctity of my fourth marriage!

(On the honest side, I'm still married to my first wife, just making the point Smiley: tongue)
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#47 Aug 19 2013 at 10:31 PM Rating: Excellent
Also, while I find it foolish that it is even an issue, games like Mass Effect and Skyrim had homosexual marriage / encounters in a single-player game. In ARR, it would require 2 ppl to actually commit to a non-legally binding relationship that could ruin the moral fabric of 'MURICA! Huge difference Smiley: lol
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I, for one, do not like the idea of a *** couple who loves each other ruining the sanctity of my fourth marriage!

(On the honest side, I'm still married to my first wife, just making the point Smiley: tongue)


Still married to your first AND your fourth... I don't know whether to hi five you or be jealous ;) j/k
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I, for one, do not like the idea of a *** couple who loves each other ruining the sanctity of my fourth marriage!

(On the honest side, I'm still married to my first wife, just making the point Smiley: tongue)


Still married to your first AND your fourth... I don't know whether to hi five you or be jealous ;) j/k


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As someone who likes to RP, I generally see marriage systems in MMOs as a very half-assed pandering to the typically mocked RP subset of the community. As well, anyone who truly wishes to RP a marriage, be it with a man, woman, midget, sheep, or whatever are absolutely free to with no coded backing whatsoever. That in mind, I feel the topical ********* can be outright avoided by not implementing marriage mechanics and simply letting people do their thing. The moment any kind of perks are added to the system like unique gear or other game features, you're basically asking for that swarm of players who feel their "thing" isn't being represented fairly.

At best, I'd say give a means to sign/engrave gear with a name and in the future have a paid name change service (RL or gil) so someone could adopt a new last name if they really, really, really want to.
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