For the PS4 you will want a new TV.
As for the PS3 quality, I think it is a little less than I would have hoped but its not bad. It tops at 720res. The PS4 quality should be 1080res but that's speculation. Is it so bad that you need to wait a year before you get it on the PS4? NO, if you want it, go get it. Is it as good as the PC, **** no, some PCs are SICK. My low life desk top has better graphics.
For me its about comfort. I don't really care for such awesome sweet graphics if I can enjoy and play the game without constant freezing or lag. So far, P4 and EA, lag is a non-issue and I am having a ton of fun on the PS3. I am a 1.0 player too, the PC is great but I have been waiting for a PS3 release for a long time.
As for your thing about servers, I don't think that means anything because we are all on the same servers. Graphic wise, PC is hands down winner but its not so bad that you can't play. However, the game is a gem to be seen on a gaming PC, that is true.
Hope that helps while you wait for PS3 videos to surface.