Yeah, you can send items and money to other characters.
No, you can't get an access code without paying. Why not just make a character, send him the items, then delete the old character if necessary? Do you not like your account or is it just the character? Maybe I'm misunderstanding you.
Edited, Aug 28th 2013 12:47pm by CaptainMalReynolds
Just the character I would like to change. If I do create a new character on the same account and delete the old one, will I be billed for main+ mule? I have this FFXI idea of it maybe its different.