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#1 Sep 01 2013 at 10:26 AM Rating: Excellent
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How long should you wait to tell a new girlfriend that you like playing MMO's for hours-on-end?
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#2 Sep 01 2013 at 10:27 AM Rating: Excellent
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Never, you need to be a ninja.
#3 Sep 01 2013 at 10:30 AM Rating: Excellent
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Omniworm wrote:
Never, you need to be a ninja.


That's what I was thinking, but I'm not a very good ninja.
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#4 Sep 01 2013 at 10:31 AM Rating: Excellent
Only if you find out the same thing. Probe (not with your 'finger'). See if she is a closet gamer. Then.... 'open the door' as we EVE folk like to say.
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#5 Sep 01 2013 at 10:36 AM Rating: Excellent
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darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Only if you find out the same thing. Probe (not with your 'finger'). See if she is a closet gamer. Then.... 'open the door' as we EVE folk like to say.


If I ever meet a female closet gamer I'm putting a ring on her finger. Timing might be off on that as well... =P
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#6 Sep 01 2013 at 10:46 AM Rating: Good
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First date or conversation. Unless you don't genuinely care about getting to know each other and just out for a piece of A.

Better to find out where each other stand on everything right out of the gate versus finding out you don't fit together two years down the road. And lf playing games is something you are very passionate about but other person disagrees, that could lead to both of you being unhappy or spending less time together.


The bolded part can be good or bad depending on the extremes and your frames of mind lol.


#7 Sep 01 2013 at 10:53 AM Rating: Excellent
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Just be up-front about it. You never know if she might actually be into that.

I met my husband on a MMO after all. c:
#8 Sep 01 2013 at 10:56 AM Rating: Excellent
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I'm actually trying to convince my girlfriend to get this also and play together
#9 Sep 01 2013 at 10:59 AM Rating: Good
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I wouldn't go into that much detail until you know how she feels about games let alone mmo's in general. It shes not cool with it she will bounce if you spend more of your time on this instead of with her. At the very least don't mention hour's on end, most girls will not find that too endearing.
#10 Sep 01 2013 at 11:01 AM Rating: Excellent
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Maybe just say that you like to play games in your free time. Feel her out on that one, and if she isn't horrified, maybe she'll ask what type you like and you can go into more detail at that time.
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#11 Sep 01 2013 at 11:44 AM Rating: Excellent
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Thanks for the replys! Since I enjoy playing so much I will ease it into the conversation soon. Might let a few more dates pass by first. =)

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#12 Sep 01 2013 at 11:50 AM Rating: Excellent
Kawohni wrote:
Just be up-front about it. You never know if she might actually be into that.

I met my husband on a MMO after all. c:


I want to meet a girl on an MMO and marry her at said MMO's convention..... Have any single friends? Only criteria is 'MMO player'
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#13 Sep 01 2013 at 11:56 AM Rating: Excellent
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Probably before you're late to your wedding because you had to get that one last level...
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darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Kawohni wrote:
Just be up-front about it. You never know if she might actually be into that.

I met my husband on a MMO after all. c:


I want to meet a girl on an MMO and marry her at said MMO's convention..... Have any single friends? Only criteria is 'MMO player'


Haha unfortunately my only single MMO-playing female friend isn't into dudes. But maybe someone will come around for you someday!

Edited, Sep 1st 2013 2:02pm by Kawohni
#15 Sep 01 2013 at 12:05 PM Rating: Good
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Whenever. It's not going to be that surprising to a girl that a guy plays video games. Just don't try to get her into it (unless she's a gamer), that's just weird.
#16 Sep 01 2013 at 12:08 PM Rating: Good
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I'm jealous of you people with gaming mates. If I could have a do-over, I 'd make sure my husband liked games!


Just kidding....sorta ;)

Edited, Sep 1st 2013 2:09pm by mabiche
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#17 Sep 01 2013 at 12:14 PM Rating: Good
Can someone rate up Killua for me? I hit the wrong arrow. Must have been reflex.
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#18 Sep 01 2013 at 12:16 PM Rating: Decent
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darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Can someone rate up Killua for me? I hit the wrong arrow. Must have been reflex.


lol. gotcha covered.
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#19 Sep 01 2013 at 12:18 PM Rating: Excellent
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Tell her while you help her create her character...
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#20Prophet vahlmyth, Posted: Sep 01 2013 at 12:21 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Add to the equation an **attractive** female gamer and we move into Unicorn territory..
#21 Sep 01 2013 at 12:24 PM Rating: Excellent
Prophet vahlmyth wrote:
Kawohni wrote:
darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Kawohni wrote:
Just be up-front about it. You never know if she might actually be into that.

I met my husband on a MMO after all. c:


I want to meet a girl on an MMO and marry her at said MMO's convention..... Have any single friends? Only criteria is 'MMO player'


Haha unfortunately my only single MMO-playing female friend isn't into dudes. But maybe someone will come around for you someday!

Edited, Sep 1st 2013 2:02pm by Kawohni



Add to the equation an **attractive** female gamer and we move into Unicorn territory..



I'm sure she's perfectly attractive to him, and that's all that matters. Nobody elses opinion matters one bit.
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#22 Sep 01 2013 at 12:24 PM Rating: Good
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Don't tell her until after marriage.

It'll provide a memorable topic for your divorce settlement.
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#23Prophet vahlmyth, Posted: Sep 01 2013 at 12:25 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Once again your desire to be argumentative got ahead of you.
#24 Sep 01 2013 at 12:26 PM Rating: Decent
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If she's embarrassed about your hobby she's not really girlfriend material. Mean while elsewhere on campus (or anywhere really) there's an attractive gamer girl waiting for you to ask her out.
#25 Sep 01 2013 at 12:26 PM Rating: Good
Prophet vahlmyth wrote:
darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Prophet vahlmyth wrote:
Kawohni wrote:
darexius2010, Goblin in Disguise wrote:
Kawohni wrote:
Just be up-front about it. You never know if she might actually be into that.

I met my husband on a MMO after all. c:


I want to meet a girl on an MMO and marry her at said MMO's convention..... Have any single friends? Only criteria is 'MMO player'


Haha unfortunately my only single MMO-playing female friend isn't into dudes. But maybe someone will come around for you someday!

Edited, Sep 1st 2013 2:02pm by Kawohni



Add to the equation an **attractive** female gamer and we move into Unicorn territory..



I'm sure she's perfectly attractive to him, and that's all that matters. Nobody elses opinion matters one bit.


Once again your desire to be argumentative got ahead of you.

His girlfriend is not a "gamer" therefore my comment had nothing to do with him or her. It was in reference to the later comments about female gamers.

Helpful suggestion: Read. Comprehend. Think. Then write/speak.





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#26 Sep 01 2013 at 12:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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If your serious about this girl than tell her right away. This way if she dont like it than you dont get to invested. Or she might be into it and everything will be amazing.
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